Wednesday, January 15, 2014

How to Give Gifts from Korea like a Teacher: Play a Game


After teaching English in Korea for an entire school year, my brain is set to generate
fun or clever ways to teach and entertain, so I decided on a really fun way to distribute Korean gifts to my friends back home. 

Pencil Cases, Tea & Soap
I wanted to bring a bunch of fun writer/teacher gifts back, but I wasn’t exactly sure which gifts would be received the best. In the end, I bought a bunch of things I thought were cool, funny, or very Korean, but I didn’t want the responsibility of choosing the perfect little gift for each person( approximately twenty). Gift giving and receiving is much different in the US compared with Korea. In the US, people are expected to be slightly emotional when they open gifts, which, to me, can get kind of exhausting. In Korea, most people don’t show emotion even when they are really excited about a gift. They also don’t open gifts in front of the people who gifted them.

When I thought of a way to encourage my friends to make these gifting decisions for me, instead of feeling ashamed, I cackled to myself with glee. Call me lazy if you want, but I turned gift choosing into a game. I wrapped up all the presents in Korean wrapping paper and brought them to my get-together. Instead of handing out the gifts, though, I had each person take a number from a bag, then I spread out the gifts, wrapped in intriguing paper and shapes, for all to see.

Next, I explained the rules: Each person could choose a gift in order of the number they drew from the bag. Then, the person who drew number one would choose from all the gifts, open one, show everyone, and then keep it. The person with the next number would choose a gift and go through the same routine, only they could choose to either keep their gift, or trade it with a previous person(s).

Let’s just say that curiosity piqued from wrapped gifts isn’t exclusive to child’s play.
It turns out that most people liked what they opened so only a couple people stole from each other. Because I wrapped the gifts a couple days prior to the gathering, I couldn’t even remember what I put in all the packages, so even I wanted to watch them being opened.

Juice Box Soju

I thought it was hilarious to watch people open things like Korean toothpaste( which I had gotten 3 tubes of as a gift from my school), juice box soju, and little calendars with awkward English on them. Like the toothpaste, each gift had a short story behind it, thus prolonging the entertainment and providing topics for conversation.

Despite there being about twenty gifts, only one person really despaired when they opened theirs. It was a Korean origami-like project that was supposed to turn paper into animals. I have to admit, that was just evil of me. Or, was it purposeful to tickle another part of our brains?  Naw, it was just evil. I wouldn’t have wanted to open that one either. But, in the end, my poor friend wouldn’t steal something from another person. I guess we’re all adults, either that or she was afraid of facing the wrath of one who really liked their gift. Since there were leftover gifts, though, I offered those who were unsatisfied with their gift to choose another.
Andong Soju


It was great fun! If you ever have a chance to do this, I highly recommend it.


A list of what I brought back:
Korean toothpaste
2 cute calendars with awkward English
2 mini notebooks with awkward English
2 Korean money erasers
Green Tea from Jeju Island
Juice box soju
Andong distilled soju ( the real thing)
Children’s pencil cases
Adult/subdued pencil cases
Korean origami-like paper to make animals out of
Goofy socks both “sleeping socks” and thin decorative socks
Innisfree Jeju Island green tea soap
Innisfree hand cream
A big notebook (line free) with cutesy characters on it
Ginseng candies

The Aftermath





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